Wednesday, 27 February 2013

64 daughters married in mass wedding ceremony organized at Sarsa

AHMEDABAD: Sixty-four daughters from different communities of north Gujarat were married off in a mass wedding organized at Sarsa village near Anand to mark the birthday of Swami Avichaldasji Maharaj on Wednesday. The wedding was sponsored by Dashrath Patel, a billionaire businessman from US, whose daughter Ranu is turning 16 soon.

"Sixteenth birthday is a landmark in a child's life in the US where every parent throws a lavish party to celebrate his daughter turning sweet sixteen. I and my wife Chaya were keen that we share this happiness with daughters back home as well," said Dashrath Patel who spent over Rs 25 lakh for the mass wedding where 64 girls got married.

Each daughter was given five pairs of sarees and a kit of utensils and other items of daily use to help her start the family life. The function was presided over by Swami Avichaldasji Maharaj.

For the past 10 years, Avichaldasji has been organizing mass weddings on his birthday to enable poor parents marry off their daughters without borrowing money from loan sharks. "We realized that most parents, especially poor people, resent having daughters as they see them as a financial burden. We decided to give a helping hand to the parents to get their girls married so that the girl child is not resented but loved", said Avichaldasji.

The swami said that he believes that the religious and spiritual leaders can contribute majorly to the cause of saving the girl child. However, there is need for more people like Dashrath Patel to come forward and donate for social causes.

"While there are lakhs of people who donate for religious reasons, people should also come forward to share the financial burdens of the needy especially during social occasions like weddings. This would go a long way in making people respect and welcome girl child in the family", the swami said.

Wednesday, 20 February 2013


Eight wards shame Mumbai with skewed sex ratio at birth
 
MUMBAI: While the civic administration's statistics show that the sex ratio at birth for Mumbai has improved slightly in the last one year, experts are not too impressed. They say that the administration has to sustain such results over a decade before there is any significant change in the city's or even India's skewed sex ratio.
A senior civic official, however, insisted that any increase, however small, is a step in the right direction.
Both Maharashtra and Mumbai, in particular, have shown an anti-girl bias in the last two census.
Civic figures show that the sex ratio at birth - the number of girls born per 1,000 boys - for 2012 was 922:1,000, up from 917 in 2011. But a closer look at the ward-wise break-up shows that eight wards have registered a dip in sex ratio at birth.
In south Mumbai's Pydhonie area, for instance, only 860 girls were born for every 1,000 boys last year.
In 2011, the locality was placed better at 981 girls per 1,000 boys. In fact, the Pydhonie-Byculla-Parel belt of the island city, the prosperous Goregaon-Malad-Kandivli belt of the western suburbs and the populous belt from Bhandup to Ghatkopar in the eastern suburbs have all shown a dip in sex ratio at birth.
A L Sharada from the NGO, Population First, said it would be premature to think that such marginal increase is of any significance. She added that easy access to medical tools such as ultrasound machines, which can illegally be used to find the sex of the unborn child, was responsible for the skewed sex ratio.

"The cost of living in Mumbai is high. People want small families and still have a great desire for a male child. This is true in both the slums as well as non-slum pockets of the city," she said.

Sharada added that the BMC should now study why certain areas, such as Parel in south central Mumbai, have consistently registered a lower-than-city-average sex ratio.

Her NGO had earlier conducted a survey to underline poor adherence among ultrasound clinics of the rules laid down under the Pre-Conception and Pre-Natal Diagnostic Technique (Prohibition of Sex Selection) Act.

"Until there is stringent conviction for offenders and better gender sensitivity among the population, the problem of skewed sex ratio at birth cannot be solved," said Kamayani Bali Mahabal, Forum Against Sex Selection.
 

Monday, 11 February 2013

New Terms of Endearment

New Terms of Endearment: Instant love and sex with no emotional baggage. Young urban India redefines relationships
If there's a day when Shashank Wahi, 21, doesn't party, it's on Valentine's Day. For the self-confessed hater of the red hearts-and-balloons ritual, dating is all about "picking up the right chick". No love, no commitment. "We party, have fun and then part ways with no phone numbers, no names, no hard feelings," says the Armani-clad Delhi University student who scours the Capital's upscale nightclubs thrice a week.
Welcome to the age of instant-hook-ups-and-instant-break-ups where a 'date' means heady partying and 'commitment' is oh-so-passe. Men and women no longer 'fall in love'; they are 'in a relationship' and when matters start going wrong, it merely gets 'complicated'; there are no 'heartbreaks'. Flooded with options, the urban youth now wants to explore and experiment. No one bats an eyelid when they hear that their friends are sleeping together; it's all about discovering the other before thinking of commitment. Gone are the days when men wooed girls with silly Hallmark cards and women listened to Backstreet Boys on loop. These are times of tough love, quick gratification and commitment phobia. "The new rule of dating says don't get emotionally involved unless you're sure of the person," says Vikrant Gaba, 22, a finance consultant in Mumbai for whom strobe-lit nightclubs are the perfect place to meet potential dates. An online Valentine's Day poll by india today in February 2013 shows that 28 per cent of the respondents are already indulging in casual sex with multiple partners and 41 per cent crave to get lucky.
New Rules of the Dating Game
The new dating mantra for the urban youth is the Rules of the Macha, which means best friend in Malayalam, the desi version of the western Bro Code. Machas get together for some fun on a night-out. Inspired by sitcoms like How I Met Your Mother and Two and a Half Men, new-age lovers don't want the emotional baggage. "Dating is all about exploring all options, going dancing with a guy who will pick up the tab and then saying goodbye without waiting anxiously for him to call you the next day," says Supriya Khurana, 24, a film animation artist in Mumbai. For her, and other chick code loyalists, the term boyfriend is too cheesy; the men in their bedroom are Schnukums, Mr Big, Man Toy or HottieWith casual being key, young couples are snipping those emotional strings and trading commitment for fun. Teenagers proudly state they are in combolationships or complicated relationships where the status can change from committed to single in a matter of hours. "There is too much stress around anyway. Why would you want to add to it with tears and fights?" says Anuja Singh, 26, a Mumbai DJ who lives in with her boyfriend of two years and shares an 'open' relationship.

Contrast this with an earlier generation where courting couples dreamed of walking down the aisle. India's GenNext wants to discover and explore before taking the vows. Some are even glad to take the matrimonial sites route for a suitable match when relationships get sour. "Once you've had all the fun, you want to settle down with a person who will offer stability and fit into the family," says Bangalore-based engineer Jayant Srivastava, 27, who has hooked up with "at least two dozen women" and is opting for an arranged marriage.
The mindset is evident from the findings of the 10th annual INDIA TODAY-Nielsen sex survey of November 2012, which show that despite growing access to casual sex, 65 per cent of urban men still prefer their spouses who are virgins. "This generation that holidays and studies in foreign lands and grows up listening to (rapper) Eminem is stuck between an open Western culture and traditional values. It's neither here nor there," says Sulochana Desai, a former sociology teacher in Mumbai.
Love Bites and Love Bytes
Blame it on international sitcoms where casual sex is cool or recent Bollywood flicks which celebrate the playboy, popular culture is fuelling no-strings-attached relationships. "It could be the influence of Western entertainment, but the nature of dating has completely changed today in India. Youngsters are less afraid to experiment and switch partners. Casual relationships are seen as cool and romance is labelled as gay," says Sanjoy Mukherji, a Mumbai-based relationship counsellor and psychiatrist.
In the iPad era, youngsters are hooking up on Facebook (FB) or following potential love interests on Twitter. Smartphones and apps have made flirting fast and furious at the click of a key and 140 character declarations of interest can bring a partner into bed. From a tweet to a shared 'like', anything can make the heart beat faster. When Delhi writer Sheetal Mehta, 25, saw pilot Rohit Shaan, 27, share her love for 'Boondein' by indie pop band Silk Route, she sent him a friend request on FB in May 2011, and began a whirlwind long distance romance. A year later, they realised "that the virtual persona and real-life personality didn't match" and called it quits.

Help for the Hapless
For those who don't get lucky on FB, dating sites and meet-ups are helping singles in the city find a perfect match. From getting together on the dance floor at nightspots like Blue Frog and Aurus to bonding over P.G. Wodehouse and Gary Larson, dating sites such as Mypurplemartini.com and Meetup.com are the new meeting places for the lonely heart. If some promise to set you up during cook-outs and car racing sessions, others take the tried-and-tested 'a lot can happen over coffee' route with meetings at Costa and Barista. A Mumbai-based dating site Sirfcoffee.com promises to set people up based on their common choices after vetting their detailed applications. "Urban singles are rich and ready to mingle; they just need a platform to meet other like-minded people. Some want serious relationships but most want to hang out and have fun with people who share music and cocktail interests," says Sahil Sharma, who runs a singles club in Pune. There's also help for those on-the-go with sites like Meetattheairport.com where fliers post their location and meet others headed for the same terminal
Don't Need a Happily Ever After

In the 140-character world, break-ups are as swift as hook-ups. A flirty post, an unsuitable picture or a 'hurtful' tweet can bring the relationship crashing down. Where the music matters more than the man, lack of compatibility over clubbing is reason enough to call it quits. For Janice Mascarenhas, 24, love took a backseat after her boyfriend refused to take her for Spanish pop singer Enrique Iglesias's concert in Pune last year. "Why be with a man who doesn't keep me happy?" says the Mumbai-based interior designer who is now dating a man with similar tastes in music and movies
With instant love comes uncontrollable envy as Kota-based student Urmila Jain, 19, discovered when she saw a picture of her boyfriend, Jasmeet Singh, hugging a girl. Her relationship status promptly went to 'single'. "Even after five years of being together, I couldn't convince her that the girl was my cousin. Facebook and Twitter have made people so presumptuous and irrational. We are governed by what we see and not what we think," says Jasmeet.
Psychologists call it a sign of the instant times where romance is fickle and deep bonds are missing. "Love has become very impersonal and fleeting in nature today and technology plays a big role in it by keeping people from developing personal bonds. In real life, it means people are happy to switch partners without batting an eyelid," says Yash Singh, Delhi-based relationship counsellor.
Parents Play Catch-Up
Parents, too, are fast adapting to the date-and-dump culture, often turning a blind eye to their kids' dalliances. Shobha Kapur, 50, a Chandigarh-based mother of teenagers aged 19 and 17, is aware of her sons' girlfriends but chooses to stay mum. "The peer pressure is so high that they will do what is considered cool. I'm happy that at least they play it safe," she says.
The transition from wild heady partying to matrimony isn't a cakewalk for all. After a series of failed real relationships and two Facebook affairs with older women, including one much married housewife, the Chandigarh journalist Sukant Deepak, 32, is sure of never getting married to "maintain his emotional space".
The fast and furious lives of their children are giving parents like Sangeeta Saxena, 48, sleepless nights. The Chandigarh homemaker cannot find a 'respectable' groom for her 24-year-old daughter Aastha who has had three boyfriends in two years. "My daughter does not want marriage; she says she just wants to have fun. Her plan for the future is to 'chill out'. The situation is beginning to worry me now as she has become the subject of gossip in the neighbourhood. How will I find someone to marry her if she is against serious commitment?" says the anxious mother
For Some, Old's Still Gold
Even as quick flings and cyber dating start to become common, there are still some who dream of the perfect romantic happily-ever-after. Despite five heartbreaks, for Shilpi Rai, 18, a student of Delhi University, the 'knight in shining armour' fantasy still holds true. "I don't want a life that is based on text messages, electronic love and physical intimacy. I want emotional connection and real-life romance. My friends call me old-fashioned and gullible. But I feel I am just a believer," she says. In times of quickies, not all are as hopeful. In Kolkata, Surbhi Chatterjee, 20, went from being a topper to college dropout and commitment-phobic overnight after she caught her boyfriend of four years cheating on her. "Just because I did not want to have sex with him, he was sleeping with other girls," she saysEven Bollywood has caught on to the trend. The out-of-control bunch of friends in Bejoy Nambiar's Shaitaan may have shocked those oblivious of the mindset of today's youth and struck fear into the hearts of most parents but even the more candyfloss cinema isn't blind to new notions of love. Arjun Kapoor's character in Ishaqzaade thinks nothing of seducing and sleeping with the enemy to teach her a lesson, reflecting that the youth in India's Tier II towns are also waking up to premarital sex. Anushka Sharma in late Yash Chopra's Jab Tak Hai Jaan is proud to belong to the "instant make-out, instant break-up generation". And Alia Bhatt's glam character, the Indian version of Gossip Girl, who effortlessly falls out of love with one guy and instantly falls in ishqwala love with another in Student of the Year, has made the debutante actress a teenage heartthrob.

Be it celluloid or middle-class drawing rooms, the modern love story, has given chocolates-and-candy romance a wide berth. For the GenNext lovers, it's right here, right now. They don't always dream of the happily ever after.
Secret life of Indian teens
"I am a virgin. But I know everything about everything," Mimi, a 15-year-old Bangalore girl, flips her ponytail, looking around to make sure all eyes are on her. "Everyone I know has touched first base, at least." That's "kissing and necking", she explains to her parents. Notes are regularly exchanged between girls after sexual encounters and discarded i-Pill packs are often found in the bathrooms of the posh convent she studies in. "I'm sure you won't remain a virgin by the time you turn 18," her mother interjects tearfully. "Dude, will you let me finish," Mimi rebukes. "I'm not stupid enough to get into trouble."
Trouble is the one certain truth about her: she is a teenager. A face among the nation's 250 million adolescents- the world's largest. But how well does the nation know her? Not enough, going by the furore over the new Protection of Children From Sexual Offences Bill, 2010 proposed by the Ministry of Women and Child Development ("Does it mean 12-year-olds will start having sex?"). But now a host of surveys is figuring out what it means to be a teenager: they pack in 38 hours of activities into a day- work, chat, browse, talk, SMS, Twitter, Facebook, smoke, drink, splurge, do drugs, have sex, get pregnant-and they can't wait for the future to arrive. Unknown to the nation at large, teenage seems to have taken on a whole new meaning. To Delhibased counsellor Gitanjali Kapoor, it's a cultural moment: "Constant exposure of different types of media is enhancing their inquisitiveness, encouraging them to question and stretch their boundaries."
Not that the teens care. For them, it's LOL (Lots Of Love) all the way. Sex is cool because, gosh, everybody's doing it. Twenty-five out of 100 teenage girls in a big-city school are sexually active, reports the Indian Association of Paediatricians. But to Taki, 19, a Delhi girl (who prefers to be known by her nickname like the rest of her peer group in this story), that's a gross underassessment: "Over 75 per cent of my classmates are not virgins". Some of them are into serious romance, some are "just FWBs" ("Friends With Benefits. Not dating but together... just a convenience thing".) Some boys carry condoms in their pockets because they don't know when "they might get lucky". During high school socials, dark corners of the venue are "reserved" by couples beforehand, so that they can go and "do it" in a crowded room, "just for the thrill of it", Mimi explains.
In the world of adults, statistic is truth. And surveys reveal*, it's a generation that spends 10 hours a day on some sort of a media, two hours on social networking sites, 1.6 hours on the phone, four hours 23 minutes a week on computer games. While 66 per cent carry mobile phones to school, 47 per cent can't live without TV. Over 45 per cent drink alcohol five times a month and 14 per cent use tobacco. Yet 70 per cent teens show signs of depression and 48 per cent think about suicide. A survey released by one of Bollywood's biggest hits last year, Udaan-all about a 17-year-old boy, who gets expelled from boarding school for sneaking out to watch a semi-porn film-shows: one in five teens watches porn before age 13; every second teen necks and kisses, 15 per cent in the school loo; one out of five claims to have had sex; 90 per cent believe in premarital sex, with 45 per cent of girls opting for clandestine abortions.
If every generation needs a cultural marker, Facebook is the canvas on which the digitally nimble teens spill their secrets. What used to be the rush to the school canteen to tell everyone what's going on has become the rush to social networking sites. "We are the original Facebook generation," says Soapy, 17, a Kolkata boy now based in Delhi. "It took off in 2004, just as we started getting our hands on computers." It's also the new status symbol and an attitude signal. "It can make you or break you." He spends 45 minutes a day on Facebook ("My cousin Miko checks it every hour"), has 600 Facebook friends ("Oh, some have 2,000") and has not changed his profile picture for eight months ("So people are not poking me as much as they used to"). Mimi says, everyone, even 11-12 year-olds, has a Facebook account: "They all say they are 18". Ask her how, and she says "Duh!".
"Duh" is a slice of teen sarcasm aimed at people who state the obvious. What it hides is the danger of entering the world of strangers when you are not quite ready for it. Exactly what happened this week to two teens in Mumbai when they allegedly typed "what's up?" to strike a chat with their principal on Facebook and followed it up with "F***k off" and "Go to hell". One got away. But censured at home and suspended from school for a month, the younger boy, 13, has possibly learnt the lesson of his life. "It's the nature of the medium," says Shelja Sen, consultant psychologist in Delhi, "You can't be held accountable. You don't have eye contact. And you can be as nasty and aggressive as you please." Soapy has a different explanation: "Facebook is like a road. You can bump into anybody but would you speak to all and sundry? Younger people just don't get it. They are not the Facebook generation, you see."

Despite those highs and lows, Facebook is the place where they measure each other's cool quotient. And every teen is aware of the subterranean war of attitude and outlook that rages on the social networking website. As everyone checks out everyone else, the profiles send out varying signals. A massive friend count means, "Don't expect me to give you too much attention." A nicely photoshopped Wall indicates, "I am so weird, wacky and wonderful." Profile shots updated on hourly basis mean, "Check me out, I'm cool".
If you look bad in a photograph, you will be tagged 'Hahaha'. To avoid that label, the pressure to look good on sites goes up tremendously and vanity becomes the byword. "I know girls who put in 'photo albums' of their face taken from different angles," says Rahi, a 14-year-old Mumbai student. The most-feared word among girls, not surprisingly, is "fugly"-a combination of fat and ugly-she points out. "For boys, the in thing now is to flaunt sixpack abs, if they have it," points out Soapy. "And a lot of people are posting pictures taken in a loo-home or a fivestar- in front of the mirror."

Mimi's primary function on Facebook is to keep in touch with boys she meets at socials. She has a lot of "guy friends" and she helps them check out profiles of interesting girls ("Girls they can hit on"). For Rahi, it's a great way to flirt with boys ("I can say things I could never say on their face"). The moment Piu, 15, a student of Modern High School in Kolkata, started dating a year ago, she announced it to the world by changing her "relationship status" from "single to engaged" ("I loved the attention I got".) Her friend, Mou, recalls the only time her parents banned Facebook: "I changed my relationship status to 'widowed' when I broke up with my boyfriend. Some people reported to my parents and there was a huge drama at home."
The year was 2004, when a sex clip, passed around by a bragging schoolboy to his friends, made its way to video disc-sellers in Delhi. The MMS scandal and its unapologetic teen hero and heroine sent shockwaves across urban India, even making it to the iconic Anurag Kashyap film, Dev.D. Today, most teens seem to know couples who post intimate photographs for joy, of girls who get flamed on the Net, of friends who are stalked and bullied by strangers on the cyber space. According to a survey done by Chennaibased NGO, Tulir, 42 per cent of teens on the Net face harassment online. But Taki reassures: "Chill. You can make your account secure. And, really, everybody's smart enough to avoid unknown people on the Net

Thursday, 7 February 2013

August 16, 2012 4:29 PM IST

International Prostitution Racket Busted at New Delhi Airport; 37 Girls Rescued

The Social Service Branch (SSB) of Mumbai police rescued 37 sex workers from New Delhi's Indira Gandhi International Airport on Wednesday, DNA reported.
The girls, who were a part of a high profile international sex racket, were being trafficked to Dubai and were about to board a flight when the SSB officials with the help of Delhi police nabbed the pimps and rescued the girls.
Most of them were brought from Mumbai and the rest from Hyderabad. They were all in their early twenties and were allegedly forced into the flesh trade.
"The women were being taken there on a three month work visa stating that they are artists. Most of the women are aged between 20-25," BG Shekhar of SSB, who headed the team, told the daily.
"Some of them are from Hyderabad and other states. Around 27 of the rescued women are from Mumbai," he said.    

The police recieved a tip-off about the racket through a complaint filed by one of the victims.
"One of the victims had lodged a complaint with us that she has been induced on the pretext of dance performance to gulf countries. After detailed investigation and follow up we succeeded in rescuing the girls and arrested the pimps," Shekhar said.
The two pimps have been held and the rescued girls have been sent to a shelter in Mumbai after medical examination.
During the recent raids at brothels all across the country, several such rackets have been busted. Police claimed that the latest incident at the airport is the biggest bust so far.
Last month, another such prostitution racket was busted in Shillong, where nearly seven women from Assam and three men were held from a hotel during a raid.
Earlier this year in February, seven sex workers were rescued in central Delhi. Their 40-year-old pimp was arrested by police.
In January, six women allegedly involved in two prostitution rackets in Bangalore were arrested by a squad of Central Crime Branch.
In a similar bust in Mysore, six men were arrested and four girls, including one from Bangladesh and one from Nepal, were rescued during a raid in April this year.

Poverty-stricken Indian women forced into prostitution in Middle East

Unscrupulous agents promise well-paid work abroad, but victims then sold as sex workers
The Guardian,

Monday, 4 February 2013

What will it take to end violence against women
Twenty years after the United Nations declared violence against women to be a violation of their human rights, we are still a long way from gender violence becoming unacceptable in a society. The outrage in India has ignited a necessary international conversation about rape and violence against women worldwide
Her father had a dream that his daughter would be educated and, like his sons, enjoy civil rights and liberties. He was one of those unsung fathers who have played an important role in promoting the goals of feminism, yet remain invisible among the many more fathers who cannot embrace change in their societies.
Millions of women are raped every year. Why this particular gang rape and subsequent death caused an international eruption of anger is not easy to explain. Often, one single act shines a light on injustice: the 'Arab spring' began when a poor vendor set himself on fire; Vietnam anti-war protests grew after monks turned themselves into swirling flames.
Many who protested in India used the language of human rights to denounce the rape and other forms of violence that keep women off the streets and frightened by the “customs” of rape, wife beating, honor killings, and dowry deaths. In India, authorities responded by created all-female taxi cabs and special victim units within the notoriously corrupt police forces who have been known to rape a woman after she reported the crime. They declared New Delhi as unsafe for women.
It has taken a very long time for the people of the world to realize that violence against women constitutes a violation against their human rights. Early attempts in the United States during the 1970s to redefine rape as an assault, rather than as an act of lust, ignited an international conversation and debate about the nature of rape.
But it wasn’t until 1993, at the United Nation’s World Conference on Human Rights held in Vienna, that women around the world testified about how violence—or the threat of violence—kept them off the streets, prevented them from earning a livelihood, and made them fear the “customs” that allowed their relatives to throw acid in their faces or beat them, and even kill them, if they acted in a way that dishonored the men of their family.
Women rights advocates around the world deployed a brilliant strategy at that conference by using the testimony of ordinary women to influence the United Nation’s conference. The Center for Women's Global Leadership at Rutger's university in the United States played an important role in finding women from all continents who were willing to testify about the violence they had experienced-- domestic abuse, mutilation, burning and rape---when they tried to unionize, when they“dishonored their families” by flirting or engaging in pre-marital or extra-marital sex, or when they simply went out in public alone. These testimonies moved the UN to create a High Commission of Human Rights and more important, to write a resolutionthat violence against women was a violation of their human rights.
The General Assembly passed that resolution in March, 1993. Although enforcement was impossible, the resolution created a moral compass by which countries could judge each other.
Naturally, nations fought fiercely over this resolution. China, Syria, Iran, Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia and Vietnam argued that cultural relativism was essential to global peace and mutual respect. The same argument, of course, had been used to defend slavery in the nineteenth century. But other nations stood up for human rights for women and dared to call a custom a crime. The American Secretary of State, Warren Christopher, spoke out strongly against accepting gender violence and said, “We cannot let cultural relativism become the last refuge of repression. The conference concluded with the Vienna Declaration and Programme of Action, which, for the first time, declared that violence against women violated their human rights.
One year later, in 1994, the American Congress followed by passing legislation called The Violence against Women Act (VAWA). Then, in 1995, First Lady Hillary Clinton made international news when, in a rousing and inspiring speech at the Fourth World Conference on Women, she boldly declared, "It is time for us to say here in Beijing, and for the world to hear, that it is no longer acceptable to discuss women's rights as separate from human rights,"
In the wake of the Balkan wars in the former Yugoslavia, the media began to report that all sides had built “rape camps” and that rape and other sexual atrocities had become a deliberate and systematic part of the Bosnian and Serb campaigns for victory in the war. Strong and persistent demands for a decisive response to these outrages came from around the globe.
Still, women remained what they had always been, the “spoils of war.” The countless rapes committed during the Balkan wars revealed to the world, with the help of international media and human rights activists, that the rape of women was deliberately being used to undermine the morale of the enemy. Gradually, advocates of women’s human rights began to challenge another of the world’s longest crimes against women—rape during armed conflict.
In 2002 human right activists successfully fought for the International Rome Statute for the International Criminal Court to declare rape during war as a crime against humanity or as a war crime. Yet, as the American invasion and occupation of Iraq continued, the sexual terrorism women experienced at the hands of American soldiers and Iraqi thugs was one of the most underreported crimes of a war that been waged for resources, by choice, and fueled by the lies of America’s highest officials, including former President George W. Bush, former Secretary of Defense General Colin Powell, and former National Security Advisor, Condoleeza Rice.
No, there were no mass weapons of destruction, but countless women died in the frenzy of sexual terrorism that took place, particularly in cities. In 2006, based on human rights documents, I described what Amnesty International and other had witnessed and documented:
" The invasion and occupation of Iraq has had the effect of humiliating, endangering, and repressing Iraqi women in ways that have not been widely publicized in the mainstream media: As detainees in prisons run by Americans, they have been sexually abused and raped; as civilians, they have been kidnapped, raped, and then sometimes sold for prostitution; and as women-- and, in particular, as among the more liberated women in the Arab world --they have increasingly disappeared from public life, many becoming shut-ins in their own homes".
Controlling women’s access to public life, including work, is one of the consequences of rape. That is why women activists created “Take Back the Night” marches in which women and men protested the brutal rapes, including gang rapes, that make women fearful of taking their rightful place in public life.
No United Nations resolution or action by the International Criminal Court is going stop what is still considered normal all over the world. As nations modernize, and women enter the labor force and enjoy higher education, they pose a threat to some men’s deeply-held belief that women belong in the private world of the home, and that they own the public sphere. Women who trespass risk being stopped, often by rape.
Yet, it is in precisely such modernizing nations, such as India, that the daytime gang rape of a 23 year-old young woman on a bus created such outrage and protest, by both men and women. UN resolutions and conventions create a moral compass and are necessary, but they do not initiate social change. At best, they alter the zeitgeist. It is incidents of brutality against women, protested by ordinary men and women, as well as by advocates for women’s human rights, that can, potentially, change people’s views about violence against women.
And it’s not just in developing countries that ending violence against women is tacitly accepted by authorities. As I write, the U.S. Senate will finally introduce legislation which reauthorizes the Violence Against Women Act, first enacted in 1994. They have even accepted the compromise of exempting certain immigrant women with particular visas. If it passes, the bill will then go to the House of Representative, where right-wing Republicans are working overtime to prevent the reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act. They insist on excluding particular categories of immigrant women and even if the Senate passes what they want, they will come up with another reason to oppose it. Last year, Republicans blocked the bill because they refused to include LGBT and Native American women in the legislation. It’s still not clear it will pass in 2013, here in a country that prides itself the great equality women have supposedly achieved.
In the early nineteenth century, few people in Europe or the United States, would have thought that slavery would one day become unacceptable to the majority of the world’s citizens. Twenty years after the U.N. declared violence against women to be a violation of their human rights, we are still a long way from gender violence becoming a relic of the past. But that is our goal. And the only way this change will happen is the same way that abolitionists ended slavery---through decades of social movement action and education that sought to end slavery.
We are not nearly there. Rape and all kinds of gender violence are still ubiquitous, and a disgrace to our global efforts to expand our ideas about human rights. It will take many more decades before everyone agree that violence at home, at work, and on the battlefield are not customs, but are, in fact, crimes against humanity.

TRAGIC TALE

Bengal lags in rape case conviction

Dwaipayan Ghosh TNN


New Delhi: West Bengal has one of the worst conviction rates in rape cases in this country — a measly 11.5%, the second lowest in the country after Andhra Pradesh whose conviction rate was just 11% in 2010-11.
This has come to the light after the Rape Map of India was published recently by a news blog run jointly by the Wall Street Journal and Dow Jones newswire.
According to the figures, verdict against 15,423 cases were given in 2011. There were convictions in 4072 cases and acquittals in 11, 351. In Bengal, there were 2363 reported cases in the same period but conviction was achieved only in 237 cases. In comparison to the national average of 26.4%, the 11.5% in Bengal is abysmally low. The same report also said in between 2009 and 2011, a total of 7,010 rape cases were registered in Bengal, but only 381 people could be convicted. Surprisingly, the state was at par with the national conviction rate of 44.28% in 1973 and 36.83% in 1983 before starting to slip in the nineties.
In comparison, even in Uttar Pradesh — considered to be one of the most crime-prone states — 5364 cases of rape were registered during the three year period and 3816 persons were convicted. A total of 5,052 rape cases were registered in Assam during 2009-11, but only 517 persons could be convicted. Manipur is one
state which achieved 100% conviction rate in 2011, with 53 reported cases in the state. Nearly 68,000 rape cases were registered across the country during 2009-11, but only 16,000 rapists were sent to prison.
“The poor rate of conviction is primarily due to prosecution’s inability to gather enough evidence against the accused following inadequate police investigation,” a home ministry official said. A Kolkata Police official though said:
“Unless, we have dedicated fast track courts, the problem will remain,’’ said the official who refused to be named.
The same report, though, has painted a better picture for Bengal as far as the propensity of the crime is concerned. While in Mizoram, the number of reported cases per 1, 00,000 women is as high as 14.3 and in Delhi it is 7.4, in Bengal it is 5.3, indicating the state is still comparatively safer than other cities in the country.

STATE’S SHOW
In Bengal, of the 2363 reported cases in 2011, conviction was achieved only in 237 cases
In comparison to the national average of conviction rate at 26.4%, the 11.5% in Bengal in 2010-11 is abysmally low
Between 2009 and 2011, a total 7,010 rape cases were registered in Bengal, but only 381 people could be convicted
The state was at par with the national conviction rate of 44.28% in 1973 and 36.83% in 1983 before starting to slip in the nineties
The report has sounded a positive note for Bengal as far as the propensity of the crime is concerned

PERFORMANCE OF OTHER STATES In Uttar Pradesh, 5364 cases of rape were registered between 2009 and 2011, and 3816 persons were convicted 5,052 cases were registered in Assam during 2009-11, but only 517 persons could be convicted Manipur achieved 100% conviction rate in 2011, with 53 reported cases in the state

Sunday, 3 February 2013

India fails to curb sexual violence against women: Human Rights Watch


PTI Feb 2, 2013, 05.52PM IST
NEW YORK: India has been accused of "failure" to curb incidents of sexual violence against women and for "restrictions" on right to free speech by global rights group Human Rights Watch (HRW), which said the country continues to have "significant human rights problems".
India "has a thriving civil society, free media, and an independent judiciary", the city-based rights group said in its assessment of rights abuses in India
However, it added "but longstanding abusive practices, corruption, and lack of accountability for perpetrators foster human rights violations".
In its 665-page World Report 2013, it said government initiatives, including police reform and improved access to health care and education, "languish" due to poor implementation.
"Many women, children, Dalits, tribal communities, religious minorities, people with disabilities, and sexual and gender minorities remain marginalised and continue to suffer discrimination because of government failure to train public officials in stopping discriminatory behaviour," HRW said.
The group was critical of India for the way it has addressed the problem of violence against women, saying that incidents of violence against women and girls continued in 2012, with increased reports of sexual assault, including against those with disabilities.
"India has yet to enact amendments to reform its penal laws to recognise a wide range of sexual offences," it said.
While the central government modified its protocols for handling rape investigations, removing questions on the degrading "two-finger test", the changes still fall short of World Health Organization guidelines on sexual assault, especially regarding medical treatment for victims.
On India's performance in the area of freedom of expression, HRW said the government used laws to tighten internet censorship, raising concerns about restrictions on the right to free speech.

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